American Etiquette, Dubai Disrespect

Dubai is a country at the forefront of advanced architecture and technology, but still manages to show hints of thousand year old Muslim lifestyle is important to the day to day proceedings of it's people. I, as a lucky visitor to this diverse nation, got to experience the dominate skyline, astounding architecture, and geographic alterations first hand. But to truly experience the full, rich culture of Dubai, I had to go past the obvious beauty of the city that glistened like a gem, and experience the culture contained within. To do this, I took a tour of the grand Jumeirah Mosque, the only mosque non-Muslims are allowed to visit. And it was at this time it happened. My wonderful trip shattered, like glass hitting the floor. As an American, I attempted to greet our female guide with a friendly gesture, the way I was accustomed to. As I extended my hand to her, I watched her face change, it was as if she had bitten into a sour apple. Startled, I froze, then retracted my hand, but the damage had already been done, for now the attention of the entire mosque was upon me. The glares towards me ranged from disgust, to anger, to sympathy. Not only did I feel deep sorrow for my mistake, but I disrespected their cultural code in the pinnacle of their religion. In my eyes I was trying to extend a friendly gesture, in theirs I was committing a act of sheer disrespect. And so, I retired to my luxurious hotel, as not to create further distress with my American etiquette, or as it was seen, Dubai disrespect.